Monday, June 11, 2012

Shoes continued...

Lately I'm not sure what to share. Wedding planning isn't fun right now. My health is not cooperating. And I'm anxious again. Sob, sob, sob. haha. The reality is that life is just busy. I'm missing out on reading all of my favorite blogs, and my own blog is being sadly neglected.

It turns out my blood work shows that I'm quite hypothyroid right now. Who knew? I didn't, that's for sure. The only new symptoms I've had are crying (all the time, when I don't know why), and a little dizziness. I haven't noticed any increased tiredness, weight gain, or any of the other typical hypo symptoms I remember. So I was really surprised. I've been taking the generic of synthroid and my doctor reccomends the brand name drug. Does anyone know if that makes a difference? I've been buying the generic because it's less than 1/3 the cost of brand name, but the brand name might be worth the price if it works better.

I'm up to 150 mcg of Synthroid. I take it at 5 am, 45 minutes before my HC and on an empty stomach. The doctor said it seemed like I wasn't even taking it. Weird...

Hm, let's see what else is going on... I'm doing weight watchers again. I haven't gained or lost a pound in several months. I've started working out a little more. Not much, but a little.

In the world of weddings, I'm still looking for wedding shoes. I tried my dress on with my shoes and they're not right. I don't know how to explain it, but they don't feel right. Remember this?


Well I think I'm actually looking for something more like these:
from: http://www.buttershoes.com/
from Amazon.com
from Amazon.com Nina Culver
from Amazon.com Nina Brynn

I know, I know, they're all different and not all are blue... I'm just not sure what I want. And if there is one part of this wedding that seems important lately it's my shoes and jewelry. They are two aspects of this wedding that I can control, and can choose all on my own. I'm not feeling pressure to get them picked out immediately, but I do feel a bit anxious to decide for myself.


Wednesday, May 30, 2012

Floral


Floral


Pleated dress
$75 - modcloth.com


Old Navy rosette clutch
$5.97 - oldnavy.gap.com


Effy Collection gold jewelry
$500 - lordandtaylor.com


Emily and Fin sports jewelry
$35 - modcloth.com


Sofft Amble
$100 - zappos.com

Sunday, May 27, 2012

Wedding number 3!


Here's an iphone snapshot of BL and I at the wedding two weeks ago. Don't know why I didn't use my camera, the resolution is awful... The wedding was fun. It was one of BL's college friends. I liked getting me meet more of his friends. We also took a detour and stopped at IKEA! BL's first time, and he liked it. This is similar to what I wore to the wedding:
Wedding #3


Tuesday, May 22, 2012

Wedding number 4!


 This weekend's wedding was a dear friend of mine from our Bible Study group.








Monday, May 21, 2012

Watching the planes come in

 
A week or so ago BL and I took a picnic to watch the planes at the airport. There were storms on either side of us and we got to see lightning and clouds forming and changing too. Feels like summer!

Thursday, May 17, 2012

Getting organized to walk down the aisle...

When I first thought engagement was getting close, I started to collect ideas on Pinterest for our wedding. But I didn't allow myself to do anything else. I knew that if I started to plan and get organized that I would get waaay ahead of myself. I didn't want to plan for things that I couldn't actually make decisions on. Plus, I was afraid I would get too emotionally ready to start the process and be disappointed if BL wasn't ready to pop the question just yet. 

As an aside, we had talked for a long time about getting engaged, but I pretty much told him that I wanted him to take the lead as far as when it happened... I lived to regret that a few times- near the end I was really impatient to be engaged! But God's ways are best, and I learned a lot about patience and trust. Trust in God, and trust in my future husband. I later learned just how sure BL was that he wanted to marry me, because I found out that he had purchased the ring and kept it a secret for months. Seriously guys, that made my heart skip a beat, I had no idea. but anyways... back to getting organized.

 Bookstores carry so many different options for wedding planners. It was so tempting to go out and buy the prettiest one. However, I'm such a do-it-yourself-er that I knew I needed to start from scratch and make my wedding binder my own. 

I started with a binder in a pretty blue and filled it with some helpful things like pocket dividers, reinforced filler paper, and page protectors. (If the Martha Stewart line was available at Staples when I put together my binder, I might have done some different things.)

Then I divided the paper and dividers into sections that made sense to me:
The Bride- everything pertaining to my dress, hair, and accessories
Wedding party- all about the bridesmaids and groomsmen and their attire
Ceremony- the details for the ceremony itself and on down to the decor and seating arrangement
Reception- This is the biggest section. It has everything from table centerpiece ideas, places to buy paper lanterns, lists of possible song choices, and on and on.
Photographer- lists of possible photographers and pros and cons of each. Now that we've chosen our photographer it will hold our contract, and a list of photo shots we don't want to miss.
Flowers- inspiration pics and ideas for bouquets, centerpieces, ceremony decor...
Honeymoon- BL did the planning for this, but I'll put our travel itinerary and packing lists here

I also have a bunch of documents going on Google docs that both BL and I can see:

Master To Do List- with everything that pops into my head, big or small.
Day of to do list- categorized and with a column to assign to people
Budget- including a tab for keeping track of spending
Guest List- with names, addresses, RSVP codes, and checklists for save the dates, invites and RSVPs
Wedding Day Timeline (long version)- to plan from the moment I wake up until our send off at the end of the night
Wedding Day Timeline (short version)- to keep everyone who is involved informed but not fill them in on alllll of the details
Wedding Shopping List- top of the list? vintage toy airplanes and world globes...
Wedding Contact List- with names and numbers for the wedding party, family and vendors.

Some of these things will stay digital and some will get printed out for giving to people the day of the wedding or sticking in my binder for reference.

 Resources I've used:

*All books pictured above were found on Amazon.com


Wednesday, May 16, 2012